Honesty is necessary in love – Let Candor Keep your Love Life Alive
February 5, 2013  //  By: Jitesh Manaktala  //  Dating & Romance, Relationship  //  21 Comments   //   2860 Views

Love has no existence without truth. This is because ‘truth’ in a relationship keeps faith alive and love blossoms. I did not realize this before this incident occurred in my life.

This is when I realized that love is all about being true to the person you are sharing the relationship with. Truth may hurt in the beginning but it creates a strong bond between two peoples.

I share a great relationship with my brother. We are all the same. We share the same habits, same hobbies, and the same food. We loved each other very much. However, there was an incident that took me far away from my brother both physically and emotionally. I chose some wrong friends. This made me drug addict. I started hiding this from my brother. I started spending less time with him and started making excuses to stay away from him. This creates a big rift in our relationship.

This was when I realized that I had it enough. I decided to talk to my brother. I broke down and told my brother that I have become a victim of drug abuse. This was when my brother understood me and decided to help me. He supported me emotionally and helped me to find a rehab centre for myself. I got a new life, developed a new hobby and now me and my brother are best friends.

Here are some tips I would like to share with you:

a) The best policy:

Remember that honesty is the best policy. You need to be honest with your partner no matter what. Try to open your heart out. Believe me it works and works for better.

b) Put yourself in the other person’s shoes:

You need to know how the other person reacts or feels when you hide something or be dishonest. This will let you be honest with the person you are sharing the relationship with. The key is to be honest with yourself. You need to be true to yourself in order to maintain honesty with your partner.

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21 Comments to “Honesty is necessary in love – Let Candor Keep your Love Life Alive”
  • ramu
    February 5, 2013 - Reply

    I believe that an honest relationship which isn’t working has a better chance of survival than a dishonest working relationship.

  • akshita
    February 6, 2013 - Reply

    really agreed because honesty is the best policy as we all knew and if we want strong relation so we should be honest with our loving one.

  • Jayesh
    February 7, 2013 - Reply

    Really, When we aren’t true to ourself, we are residing a life that is off harmony. If you observe that you experience unsettled or off harmony in your existing romantic relationship, it is feasible that you are in the require of some individual honesty.

  • Dharani
    February 7, 2013 - Reply

    being honest is a key factor in a relationship, not being honest to your partner is like not having trust on them.. it could be a reason for break up and you’ll regret it.. take for example my neighbor they did love each other dearly but her partner was not totally honest and hid to her that he has a wife and a child.. he told her that he was single.. but the truth is he’s married.. they lived together for 2 years not knowing his partner was married.. so they broke up

  • aamna
    February 18, 2013 - Reply

    if you are really true and dedicated towards your relation so you must share everything with your partner because your partner expect this things from you and from your love

  • diksha
    February 19, 2013 - Reply

    honesty is the main thing which a strong relation demands,if you are honest with your partner then you should not worry about anything else.

  • shahna
    February 23, 2013 - Reply

    honesty is not just necessary in love even it is necessary in every relationship.you should be honest with your relationship,if you are not honest with your relationship it means you are not able for that relation and you are cheating with your relation.

  • gagan
    February 25, 2013 - Reply

    i am agree with the writer that honesty is the most important thing in a relationship and if you are hiding the truth with your partner than thier is really no existence of love and trust.

  • that types behavior is very strong in future if keep to mind manage the all of activity, take of the good relationship.

  • sunil
    March 7, 2013 - Reply

    very good article written by the writer on honesty and i fully agree with my dear friend that honesty is the best policy which you need the most to maintain the relation and to make your dignity front of your partner also.

    March 8, 2013 - Reply

    yeah’ honesty is very important for your relationship just be honest with your partner because when trust break so it effects alot to your relationship and also break the pone who loves you alot.

  • altafmuhammad
    March 17, 2013 - Reply

    honesty is the key of a good relationship,just be honest with your partner because the relationship is on the basis of lie and dishonesty that cant be happier for a long time,because when the reality come front that destroy everything.

  • niharikamatren
    March 18, 2013 - Reply

    honesty is very necessary for any relationship because i had the bad experience of it i had hidden a truth from my partner about my past and when it come front of him our relation was finished and i still had guilt on that why should i hidden the truth.

  • rajatgujrati
    March 20, 2013 - Reply

    hey it’s very bad happened with you Niharika and you can be lesson for them who are not honest with their partner because this is the only result when you lied to your partner.so i am also requesting and sujjesting to them please just be honest with your partner.

  • hunnysingh87
    March 22, 2013 - Reply

    honesty is the main key and the first step of your relationship,just take this as your first step and the relation will become more precious for you.

  • adnankhan17
    March 24, 2013 - Reply

    oh wow on honesty many frnds give their view i am really glad to heard this views about the honesty and all in one in this world many people believes in honesty in love and honesty with their partner.

  • Srishti Khanna
    April 13, 2013 - Reply

    Honesty is a vital ingredient of any relationship be it mother daughter, brother-sister or husband -wife.If there is deceit or lies in any relationship then that relationship is doomed for all times to come. It is better to be honest than to hide something and lose your credibility forever,

  • Garima
    June 7, 2013 - Reply

    Agreed! I believe that a relationship cannot go good without honesty. I want to do patch up with my X boyfriend, can you please tell me some tips?

  • Pooja
    June 11, 2013 - Reply

    Absolutely! In any relationship honesty plays very important role. i believe without honesty a relationship would not run perfectly.

  • Shilpa
    June 23, 2013 - Reply

    Agreed with Pooja! Honesty is key of every relationship. Always keep honesty in between you and make it alive.

  • Tabasum
    July 5, 2013 - Reply

    Do you want to keep your love healthy and alive? If yes, then be honest, Honesty is the main key of every relationship. If you are honest then your relationship will for long and keep you reason for living.

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