How to pick up a girl
December 20, 2012  //  By: Jitesh Manaktala  //  Adult, Dating & Romance  //  11 Comments   //   2126 Views

Most people find picking up a girl very common among men who are inexperienced or asking a girl out for a date for the first time. The fact is that it is not easy to approach a woman. It takes a lot of courage and the appropriate action to approach a girl and expect positive results.

You need to take several things into consideration. Here are some of the things you need to keep in mind when it comes to picking up a girl.

a) Practice optimism:

Women usually have an aversion to pessimists. They don’t like people who don’t have a positive and pleasant approach to life. Believe in all positive and beautiful things in life, practice optimism and display it too. You should put a great and natural smile on your face. Get rid of that smirk. This will go against you. Your sunny smile and humorous jokes will definitely impress your girl.

b) Use what you have:

Don’t fret over things that you do not possess. This will make you appear desperate. It would be better that you feel happy about what you have and display it with pride. If you don’t find anything worth displaying, you may take you cute and cuddly dog out for a walk. Who knows a beautiful girl will pass by and get impressed with the dog you own. This will automatically lead to a good conversation between you and your girl.

c) Humor:

Girl love to laugh and you should find some good humor to make them do so. Laughter is the best medicine and this medicine will attract women towards you with less efforts and time. You need to make your woman laugh any time and any place. Once you do this you have already won the battle.

d) Don’t expect rejection:

What most men do is expect rejection when they come to know that the woman they are approaching is hot and beautiful. This is wrong. When you expect rejection, you are attracting negative powers to yourself. This means that you are expecting failure. Be positive see positive things happening to you.

e) Grab the interest:

If you see a woman interested in establishing a conversation with you, then you have already made her like you. Now, you require focusing on getting into a conversation that she may hold some interest in. It can be a general topic or a situation. Try to listen to her and let her realize that you have something interesting to tell her.

f) Respect her:

This is very important. You need to respect your woman in order to make her interest in you. Remember that a woman will not be interested in a man or sleep with someone who doesn’t respect her. You should make her realize that you are genuinely interested in her company and she would like to be with you.

To sum up, picking up a girl is not as difficult as you think it is. A little effort from your side will do the trick.

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11 Comments to “How to pick up a girl”
  • kangan
    February 2, 2013 - Reply

    what a great way to pick up a girl.and good information about this…

  • Mobinur
    February 3, 2013 - Reply

    I think this is a good way to pick up a girl but this is not so perfect for every girls.

  • Rohit
    February 4, 2013 - Reply

    I’ve tried so hard to impress girls lately and I don’t get the attention that I want from them. And now I know, this time I can hangout and have a great conversation with a girl that I like by simply applying these steps. :)

  • Shailesh
    February 9, 2013 - Reply

    very good article but it’s too late. I have already chosen my girlfriend. But i think it will be very useful for others who are searching for their perfect match. Beware when choosing your girlfriend. Thank you author for this article.

  • aparna
    February 26, 2013 - Reply

    picking up a girl is not really tough but you just have to show a sweet nature to them in which they feel good.if you feel that you will loose her and you got rejected than just don’t worry and give your cent percent to approach her.

  • kakkar
    March 30, 2013 - Reply

    according to me men are not picking the girl but girls are picking their men. men can only show their efforts to impress a girl but everything depends on the girls that to whom they want as their partner. it should be like how to impress a girl

  • Srishti Khanna
    April 23, 2013 - Reply

    What an interesting way to pick girls. Though with any doubt humor helps but then girls of today are quite smart and know how to move in the right direction. Lace your humor with wit, it might help.

  • sarvesh
    May 7, 2013 - Reply

    i am not satisfied with the post content because picking a girl is not that easy as you mentioned here.

  • Kaavish
    June 26, 2013 - Reply

    Your nature is really important while picking a girl. Dont be arrogant, selfish and full of attitude in front of girl. Always show sweet nature and take good care of herself. This article is really great to pick a girl.

  • Dinesh
    July 5, 2013 - Reply

    Normally men pick out a girl usually but if you take it seriously then it is not an easy take to pick right girl. It takes a lot of courage and the appropriate action to approach a girl and expect positive results. Above mentioned tips are really very helpful in picking out right girl and approaching her in right way.

  • Rishab
    July 29, 2013 - Reply

    Great tips! Women usually have an aversion to pessimists. They don’t like people who don’t have a positive and pleasant approach to life. You should avail if planning.

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