Mistakes you make when approaching women
December 21, 2012  //  By: Jitesh Manaktala  //  Adult, Dating & Romance  //  13 Comments   //   870 Views

Are you one of those ninety percent men who make silly blunders when approaching a woman? You must have taken a back by this question. You would be surprised to learn that about ninety percent of the men across the globe aren’t able to walk up to their ladies and establish a short conversation to make them aware that they would like to see her again.

Just take small survey and conclude on how many guys actually gather the courage to reach up to the woman they like and tell her that they like her. Someone put life into the truth when he or she said that most men in this world are gawkers, not talkers. Here are some of the biggest mistakes most men make when approaching women:

a) Assuming facts:

Most of the time, people tend to think that a particular girl wouldn’t go for them as she is out of their league or too hot for them. Now, this is sort of pre-rejecting yourself. You have actually rejected way before the girl has rejected you. The most amazing fact is guys do get phone numbers and dates from women they never accepted to.

b) The girl will think that you are desperate:

Some guys think that if they approach the woman of their dreams, then this would make her feel uncomfortable and she would think that they are jerks. However, this will only make them lose out on the opportunity they would have otherwise grabbed. You are not being nice but you are scared and don’t want to make efforts or face the truth.

c) They would act rude:

Do you expect that a woman would be rude to you if she is not interested in you? If this is the case then you are making a big mistake. Most women who are not interested in you may actually end up being good friends. So, there is no question of being rude here.

d) A long conversation for a small think:

You must have thought that you need to have a long conversation before you actually get the phone number of the woman of your dreams. However, the actual thing is that within the first minute of the entire conversation, women have already made up their mind whether or not to give the phone number.

e) Give compliments, get the number:

Not true at all. Showering a girl with too many compliments will make her feel that you are needy. She will get haughtier. Just pamper her with one solid compliment and you would easily get what you want.

f) Can’t change your approach skill:

This is a false belief and in fact, the biggest blunder most guys make. Don’t think that your situation will never change. Keep yourself motivated and practice optimism.`

Now, that you know of the mistakes most guys make when approaching a girl, try and stay away from them.

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13 Comments to “Mistakes you make when approaching women”
  • arvind
    February 4, 2013 - Reply

    You begin approaching random people in the street and asking them for directions, They keep women occupied with regular conversation while they think of banter lines, cocky comedy and attraction stories to tell her.

  • Aman Singh
    February 5, 2013 - Reply

    Right! Mr. Know-it-all won’t do the trick. Just be yourself and try to be a bit cool not letting a girl feel that you’re too desperate. I think being spontaneous and persistent on getting to know her better is a big plus to win her heart.

  • Sanjoy Ray (@sanjoy737)
    February 5, 2013 - Reply

    I am totally same with this post. Most of us afraid about how to make first conversion with a girl. But girls don’t like such a coward boys, they like a parson who has the courage to tell the truth. So don’t be worried tell her the truth about your feelings for her. Go ahead boys. Thanks for a nice post.

  • bonjyo
    February 10, 2013 - Reply

    girls dont like boys who bored them with their long conversation and coward guys.girls love when anyone gives good compliment to them and if you want to give good impression on girls just try things to impress them and dont show that you are desperate.

  • janhvi dwivedi
    February 26, 2013 - Reply

    don’t show the girls that you are desperate because by this she will feel uncomfortable and dont feel good in your company.girls just loves to listen compliments and dont ever dare to criticise.

  • sujoy
    March 1, 2013 - Reply

    to convene a woman is not such a hard job,its needed a soft and a caring behavior,if woman feels that you are caring for her than she will impress by you and your can take her out.

  • sharon
    March 6, 2013 - Reply

    first of all girls don’t like the desperate guys so just be conscious with your behavior with the girl that she don’t feel that you are desperate for something just try to act normal when you are with her.

  • hunnysingh87
    March 20, 2013 - Reply

    oh dude just be careful when you are going to ask her for a date or something because they dont take time to give a slap to guy,it’s their favorite job dude.

  • arnav
    March 29, 2013 - Reply

    i think hunny you are right what i assume that these days women are very careful and they themselves trying to talk to man they want and if any man wants to approach a women then the main thing that man should have is personality, because if a women like your personality then automatically she will get in touch with you.

  • sanju
    May 9, 2013 - Reply

    i am totally agree with the post that approaching a women is a very hard task to do and women are very soft personality so to handle them you also have to pretend like a soft caring person.

  • Yavinder
    June 26, 2013 - Reply

    Before approaching a girl you should know each and every thing about the girl such as like, dislikes, hobbies, desires and other such things. These things will helps you a lot in approaching a girl. Dont miss any facts.

  • Rekha
    July 5, 2013 - Reply

    maximum man do common mistakes while approaching a girl. I totally agree with the post, if you want to give good impression on girls just try things to impress them and dont show that you are desperate. This is a best mantra.

  • Bhavya
    July 29, 2013 - Reply

    Nice post! Some guys think that if they approach the woman of their dreams, then this would make her feel uncomfortable and she would think that they are jerks. But now you should care of these mistakes.

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