Has the time come to break up a relationship? – Know if it is too Late
February 9, 2013  //  By: Jitesh Manaktala  //  Relationship  //  14 Comments   //   1664 Views

Having a successful relationship is very important for all individuals. This is the road to happiness and contentment. However, there are times when things start turning sour. The relationship we have adored the most seem to be a burden. This is the time when one needs to call it off.

However, prior to reacting to any conclusions you need to know whether the time has really come to break up a relationship. You can get some help from the strategies mentioned below, if you are going through a rough patch in your relationship.

Here are some of the strategies you can follow in order to get easier with the situation.

a) Act promptly:

Most people make a mistake of keeping their relationship in sidelines when things go wrong. You need to act fast. Remember that problems need solutions. If you wait for long, it would be more difficult for you to prevent from things getting worse.

b) Talk:

Remember that communication has the power to break the strongest of barriers. Speak your heart out. Most break ups are a result of some sort of communication gap. Be honest with your partner and speak your heart out. Don’t fight, simply discuss.

c) Give space:

You need to give your partner the kind of space he or she requires. Be patient and have confidence in your partner. The mutual trust in your relationship will let your relationship to prosper.

d) Put forward your creativity:

Lack of creativity often leads to troubled relationship. You need to keep bringing in the excitement and passion in your relationship that existed in earlier days. Go out together, watch your favorite TV program, give an occasional hug, gifts without an occasion etc. These things will help you keep the relationship in good state.

You need to keep on nurturing your relationship just as you would take care of a plant by watering it and providing it all the nutrients it requires to grow and bear flowers. And most importantly, don’t expect overnight miracle.

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14 Comments to “Has the time come to break up a relationship? – Know if it is too Late”
  • Gokul
    February 10, 2013 - Reply

    thank you for this article author! actually i have done those tips that you gave… the problem is it doesn’t work on her.. not because your tips are not effective but.. she doesn’t love me anymore and the fact is.. she is seeing someone else while we are still together.. how aweful was that..

  • Fadl Cheda
    February 10, 2013 - Reply

    I agree that talking first is the most effective way of resolving any problems especially in boy-girl relationships.

  • abhilasha
    February 14, 2013 - Reply

    the line said by the writer that we should nurture our relation like a plant thats really amajing and very impressive.

  • shivangi
    February 21, 2013 - Reply

    i must say this all tips are the best way to getting know partner and you should try to maintain your relation dont just left it and think that everything will be ok,no it is not like that you have to work hard to maintain it as it was early time.and try to understand your partners problem and what they want from you.

  • sujal
    February 25, 2013 - Reply

    dont make your relationship a burden for your partner and for you also and just tell to your partner what you feels about your partner and about your realtionship

  • jamuna
    February 26, 2013 - Reply

    dont live your relation as a burden for you if you think that you cant take it more so just talk with your partner and tell her/him that what you are thinking about this relationship.

  • simran
    March 6, 2013 - Reply

    If your partner needs some space so just try to give some space to your partner because every one needs some space to live thier life and to understand thier relation give them some time to understand your value and the value of your relation.

  • shilpamanocha
    March 17, 2013 - Reply

    before breaking the reltion just think twice and talk with each other because this is the relation which two people made for their happiness and live that relation for each others happiness so it will not be good if you break this relationship due to silly misunderstanding.

  • altafmuhammad
    March 21, 2013 - Reply

    Their is no profit of a relation which become a burden for you if your relationship is becoming a burden for you so just talk with your partner.

  • niharikamatre
    March 25, 2013 - Reply

    this is the best relationship in the world and don’t make it as a burden just give your cent percent to save it.

  • aniket
    April 16, 2013 - Reply

    I don’t think niharika, according to me the relation with your mom and dad is the best relationship in the world. every son/daughter think about their parents before doing something wrong with them just for a few months/years relationship.

  • Srishti Khanna
    April 23, 2013 - Reply

    We all invest lot of time in relationships. Nobody wants to end their relationships on a bad note . but then at times unavoidable circumstances spell doom for a relationship. It is prudent to act without any delay and talk over your differences.

  • shekhar
    June 11, 2013 - Reply

    I love my girlfriend a lot and dont want to lose her. These days we are going though hard time. I also believe in talk but what i has to do if she dont want to discus anymore?

  • Shreya
    July 5, 2013 - Reply

    Breakup is not the solution of every relationship. if you are not happy with your relationship then your first step to break it up but after breakup you will absorbed with your memories so it is absolutely no solution. You just be honest and discuss things with each other before its too late.

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